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What is Camilla New Role Now That Queen Elizabeth II is Late? by Folake(f) : 4:48 pm On Sep 14

What is Camilla’s Role Now That Queen Elizabeth II Has Died?


The death of Queen Elizabeth II paved the way for a new UK queen — or at least queen consort — in Camilla.

Before her death Thursday, the longest-serving monarch in royal history had declared it was her “sincere wish” that her once-controversial daughter-in-law “be known as Queen Consort.”

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Nigerian lady kills herself after her lover allegedly used her money to marry another woman by Folake(f) : 4:50 pm On Sep 14

A Nigerian lady identified as Olaitan Adonis has ended it all after her boyfriend, Ola Saheed, reportedly married another woman.

Reports gathered that Olaitan, mother of a seven-year-old boy, saved her money in his bank account while their relationship lasted.

Sadly, he used the money to marry someone else over the weekend and after receiving the news, Olaitan, who couldn’t hold back her tears, consumed a poisonous substance to end it all.

A source who spoke anonymously said,

“I heard they were together last Thursday, September 8, they even spent the night together, but on Friday, a friend of hers told her the guy is getting married on Sunday, September 11. She was said to have consumed a poisonous substance and died the following day, Saturday, September 10.”

The employer of the deceased who also spoke on the tragic incident, said,

“My salesgirl has been giving him money from my shop for upkeep, but he squandered the whole money. She even sent him N10k on Friday. After she ended it all, we called him and he said it’s none of his business.”

Friends of the deceased have taken to Facebook to mourn her unfortunate demise.

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Lil Frosh – Like Dat ft. Zinoleesky (Song) by Folake(f) : 5:09 pm On Sep 14

Last Updated on Sep 14, 2022 | 05:58 by Tommy

Lil Frosh Releases New Song and Video Featuring Zinoleesky, Titled, ” Like Dat “.

Street Hop Artist, Lil Frosh teams up with Amapiano Lord, Zinoleesky to deliver, LIKE DAT, A smash hit that already disturbing charts and clubs.

Lil Frosh is a Nigerian born street afro hip-hop rapper also known as Eruku Makanaki, Lil Frosh and his friend Zinoleesky grew up in the street of Lagos. He became well known by fans after he was involved in some instagram rap freestyles videos. He has done song with a lot of big artist in the industry like Mayorkun, Davido, Dremo and others.

“Like Dat” produced by Niphkeys is a smooth Amapiano record with lovely Lambas, Off Lil Frosh’s Beyond Infinity EP. I’m sure you haven’t listened to the mad tone, just go and vibe on it

Listen and Enjoy!

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Lil Frosh presents the official music video to Like Dat, featuring Zinoleesky… Watch and Enjoy below;

GET The Beyond Infinity EP HERE.

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Mayorkun – Tire (Prod by Fresh VDM) (Song) by Folake(f) : 5:15 pm On Sep 14

Last Updated on Sep 14, 2022 | 05:55 by Tommy

Mayorkun attacks with “Tire”, the 8th single off his acclaimed debut album “The Mayor of Lagos”.

The track is the 3rd track on the set and is produced by Fresh VDM.

Enjoy!

Mayorkun – Tire (Prod by Fresh VDM)

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Multichoice Planning On Merging South Africans And Nigerians Big Brother In One House by Folake(f) : 2:08 pm On Sep 16

Multichoice Planning On Merging South Africans And Nigerians Big Brother In One House

Multichoice, the organizers of the Big Brother Naija show have confirmed a new development in the show.

It was disclosed that Nigerians and South Africans are to be housed together.

In a recent event termed ‘Big Bang Stories’, Multichoice hinted to viewers on what to expect on the biggest show in Africa soon.

It was revealed that the show is at a stage where considerations are being made about merging Nigerians and South Africans together in the same house.

However, it is uncertain if the development will kick off in the next edition following the Level Up edition.

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Yemi Alade – Bubble It Ft. Spice (Video) by Folake(f) : 6:15 am On Sep 17

The music video for Yemi Alade, a brilliant Afrobeat artist signed to Effyzzie Music’s latest single, “Bubble It,” was just published.

Yemi Alade’s latest track, “Bubble It,” features a duet with Spice, a well-known Jamaican artist.

However, the song is a delightful pop record, mainly because of Yemi Alade and Spice’s outstanding vocals.

Given our confidence in the quality of this music, it would mean a lot if you added it to your playlist right now.

Watch and share your thoughts with us below!

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Freedom Is Priceless – Ice Prince Zamani by Folake(f) : 6:37 am On Sep 17

Freedom Is Priceless - Ice Prince Zamani

Superstar Nigerian rapper, Panshak Zamani, popularly known as Ice Prince, has reacted after his release from Ikoyi prison.

He stated that freedom is priceless after spending six days in the correctional centre.

The rapper stated this via his Twitter handle on Thursday night, September 15, a week after he was released on bail.

“Freedom is priceless,” he tweeted.

The ‘Oleku’ crooner is standing trial on a three-count charge bordering on assault, obstructing a policeman from carrying out its statutory duties, and abduction.

He was arrested in the early hours of Friday September 2, for allegedly abducting and assaulting a police officer in Lagos.

The court granted him bail in the sum of N500,000 and asked him to provide “two responsible sureties.

The court also ordered his remand at the Ikoyi correctional facility until his bail conditions were met.

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“Bet me, you go run from Naija” – Davido fires back at man who threatened to slap Chioma by Folake(f) : 2:02 pm On Sep 17

Popular Nigerian singer, David Adeleke, recently dished out a reply to a netizen who made a derogatory comment to his babymama, Chioma.

Chioma Rowland had shared a congratulatory message to Davido’s brother, Adewale, after he flaunted his new whip on Instagram.

Reacting to the photos shared by Adewale, Chioma took to the comments section to congratulate him.

However, a troll identified as BigHush7 took to the comments section to threaten Chioma, saying he would have slapped her if he was in Adewale’s shoes.

“You’re rude. If na me I for slap you. Rephrase your sentence with respect”, the troll said.

Reacting to the threat, Davido promised to make sure the troll runs away from Nigeria.

“You go slap who? Ok you go run away from Nigeria. Bet it”, Davido slammed the troll.

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Hollie Hughes Labels Meghan Markle As Horrible Human by Folake(f) : 7:38 am On Sep 21

Hollie Hughes Labels Meghan Markle As Horrible Human

Senator Hollie Hughes added that Meghan is a ‘terrible influence’ on the Duke of Sussex, as she commented on the tensions going on in the royal family.

All eyes have been on the royals since Queen Elizabeth II’s death on Thursday, September 8, during the nation’s period of mourning up until the funeral today.

During the funeral, Meghan and Harry walked behind Prince William and Kate, and Princess Charlotte and Prince George down the aisle as they filed into Westminster Abbey after the Queen’s coffin.

Speaking on Australia’s Sky News on Monday afternoon, Hughes said: ‘I think he’s made an awful error and I think she’s had a terrible influence over him.

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2023: Lawan out, Shekarau, Akpabio in as INEC publishes final list of NASS candidates by Folake(f) : 2:00 pm On Sep 21

Senate President Ahmad Lawan may have finally lost out in his bid to return to the red chamber following the omission of his name from the final list of candidates for next year’s Presidential and National Assembly Elections.

This was as the Independent National Electoral Commission INEC published the names of All Progressives Congress APC Presidential Aspirant, Godswill Akpabio as the party’s candidate for Akwa Ibom Northwest Senatorial District, and Ibrahim Shekarau as the candidate of the New Nigeria Peoples Party NNPP for Kano Central Senatorial District, despite having defected from the NNPP about a month ago.

Also, presidential candidates representing the nation’s 18 registered political parties would be slugging it out in next year’s general election, the Independent National Electoral Commission INEC has stated.

This is in spite of reports that the African Democratic Congress ADC may have suspended its presidential candidate, Dumebi Kachikwu.

However, at its regular weekly meeting held on, the Commission approved the final list of candidates for national elections (Presidential, Senatorial and Federal Constituencies) pursuant to section 32(1) of the Electoral Act 2022 and item 8 of the Timetable and Schedule of Activities for the 2023 General Election.


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INEC National Commissioner in charge of Information and Voter Education Committee, Barr. Festus Okoye explained that the publication of the full names and addresses of all nominated candidates follows the political parties’ conduct of primaries and completion of the nomination exercise.

“Nigerians may recall that at end of the process, the personal particulars of all nominated candidates were displayed in their constituencies nationwide as provided by section 29(3) of the Electoral Act.

“Subsequently, validly nominated candidates had the opportunity to voluntarily withdraw their candidature by notice in writing and personally deliver such notice to the political party that nominated them for the election. Thereafter, political parties substituted such candidates under section 31 of the Electoral Act for which the last day was 15th July 2022 for national elections and 12th August 2022 for State elections as clearly provided in item 6 of the Commission’s Timetable and Schedule of Activities.

“Thereafter, no withdrawal or substitution of candidates is allowed except in the event of death as provided in section 34(1) of the Electoral Act or pursuant to an order of a Court of competent jurisdiction”, he stated.

According to him, the list published today contains the names of candidates validly nominated for national elections at the close of party primaries and the period earmarked for withdrawal and substitution of candidates.

He said the final list of candidates for State elections (Governorship and State Constituencies) will be published on 4th October 2022 as already indicated on the Timetable and Schedule of Activities for the 2023 General Election.

“We note the fact that not all the political parties conducted primaries in all the constituencies, submitted the particulars of candidates that emerged from valid primaries or substituted their candidates after fresh primaries within 14 days as provided in section 33 of the Electoral Act.

“This has led to numerous litigations, some of which are ongoing. Where the Commission was served with Court orders by aggrieved aspirants or candidates before the publication of this list, these have been indicated under the remark column.

“In summary, all the 18 political parties have fielded candidates and their running mates for the Presidential election. For legislative elections, 1,101 candidates are vying for 109 Senatorial seats and 3,122 candidates for Federal Constituencies i.e. House of Representatives seats, making a total of 4,223 candidates contesting for 469 legislative positions. 

“In terms of gender distribution, 3,875 candidates are male, made up of 35 for Presidential and Vice Presidential, 1,008 for Senate and 2,832 for House of Representatives. Similarly, 381 females comprising 1 for Presidential, 92 for Senate, and 288 for House of Representatives are contesting. There are also 11 Persons with disabilities (PWDs) in the race.

“The list for specific constituencies is published in each State where they are located while the comprehensive nationwide list has been uploaded to the Commission’s website.

“We appeal to all political parties to channel any observations on the list of candidates to the Commission and such must be signed by the National Chairman and Secretary of the political party and supported with an affidavit as provided in section 32(2) of the Electoral Act 2022”, the statement added.

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Musicians Who Accidentally Became Stars by Folake(f) : 2:04 pm On Sep 21

Last Updated on Sep 21, 2022 | 02:11 by Tyler

 

It’s strange how some rock artists “made it” practically by accident in a place where artists willingly sacrifice their parents for a chance at fame. Here are a few well-known examples of individuals who, while having no prior musical expertise, were forced onto the platform and then became accidentally famous by destiny or circumstances.

YouTube isn’t new, and it has had such an influence on our time that most of the most fantastic performers credit their success to it. If you’re releasing original tracks or copies, the platform’s billions of monthly visits add up to a sizable targeted market. You cannot tell who could come across your video and decide to view it.

Tori Kelly & James Bay are examples of this. Both musicians rose to fame on the Internet and were partnered up for a spectacular collaboration at this year’s Grammy Awards. Such musicians could be highly skilled, but just not long ago, they were like any person trying to realize their ambitions.

These musicians used to be an ordinary people, and now people from all over the world try to find apps with their music. However, some musical clips may not be available in every region; hence now you can listen to any artist and music anywhere by Mozilla VPN download for free. VPNs easily give access to streaming and music services. So if you have any problems with clips of your favorite musicians do not hesitate to use services for solving.

 1.  Joanne Catherall & Susan Ann Sulley, The Human League

While partying in an English club in 1980, teenaged singers Joanne Catherall and Susan Ann Sulley got contacted by a Human League leader to take part in the upcoming melody band. Before attending the League’s Tour ten days later, they sought approval from their families and educators. Despite negative reviews at first, the lineup quickly took off, with the song “Don’t You Want Me” hitting Britain united States charts in less than a year. Since then, Catherall and Sulley were full-time League players, with many gold and platinum records to their credit. In 2004, Sulley stated on BBC Radio Newcastle, “Joanne and I weren’t ambitious; we didn’t want to be in a pop group.” “At school, we were just two girls.”

 2. Frank Bell, The Cure

The Cure’s expanded lineup recorded “I’m a Cult Hero” as a solo in 1979 under its moniker Cult Hero. Frank Bell, The Cure’s local postmaster in England, sang lead vocals both on the album’s tracks. Cult Hero had been a severe test run for a fresh Cure incarnation. However, the track was becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy once it became a major smash in Canada, influenced by Bell’s favorite T-shirt that said: “I’m a Cult Hero.” Bell appeared in The Cure in various events.

 3. 5 seconds of summer

5 Seconds of Summer grew their fan base naturally on Twitter and Facebook, and it was the YouTube channel that landed them a record deal. This resulted in a life-changing bromance: a trip including One Direction. Louis also supported them with quite a lovely and simple tweet.

 4. Carly Rae Jepson

Remember how much you played “Call Me Maybe” over and over? Justin Bieber & Selena Gomez, it appears, participated as well. Carly recorded the single in Canada in Sept’11. Justin discovered it a few weeks later, created a lip-syncing clip, and posted it to his supporters. Apart from the music’s massive success, Scooter Braun could not even pass up Justin’s strong suggestion and hired Carly immediately. Proving all it needs to establish a profession is one incredible video.

5. Tori Kelly

Despite Tori Kelly’s harsh comments for her performance on Reality Tv, she did not let anyone demotivate her. Instead, she went out on her own & started producing songs in her room, in typical YouTube form. Scooter Braun was one of the first people to see her youtube clips. She’s currently singing at the Grammy Awards and hitting ping pong with Justin Bieber.

6. Shawn Mendes

Believe it or not, Shawn used to compete in cover art competitions! In the brief period ever since he’s earned a lot of hearts. The musician’s early followers were huge on Vine, in which he’d get 10,000 views in a single day. He later performed for renowned Blogger Austin Mahone before finally joining T-1989 Swift’s tour group.

 7. James Bay

Although James is indeed a low-key musician, his music has a significant influence. He had been a mediocre musician until getting hired, performing 5 to 6 times per week. With his small social networking following, it’s evident that he’s only interested in one thing: music. That unbridled zeal is unquestionably what has propelled him to what he’s doing now.

 8. Alessia Cara

Alessia’s hobbies included uploading stripped-down, unplugged renditions of her best albums, which she retained with herself for a time. Finally, EP Television’s owner’s daughter showed him an Alessia clip. It resulted in her making demos, and she spent her final year solely focusing on her songs. It’s pleasant to find that it hasn’t changed since her graph solo album. The official song clips are still lit in the same manner she staged them nearly four years ago.

9. Justin Beiber

Even Justin, maybe the most renowned YouTube celebrity of all times, would have to begin someplace. Scooter Braun stumbled on Bieber’s exact “So Sick” footage in a regional singing contest. “Bieber Fever” got developed at the beginning. Justin’s affinity with his earliest Beliebers, Scooter and Usher, remains undeniable even now. 

10. Charlie Puth

This film was the catalyst for Ellen’s finding of Charlie, even though she was right. Of course, it’s no simple task to take on Adele! Before releasing his debut album, Nine Track Mind, the musician was your average college student. He attended the famed Berklee School of Music, so naturally prepared him for Youtube clip production.

 11. The Weeknd

Initially, The Weeknd’s title and songs were a mystery – each of his videos included just static pictures in his early days. Meanwhile, he continued to build a sizable fan base, demonstrating that his meteoric rise to the top of the rankings was entirely due to his distinctive voice. He thoroughly deserved it.

 12. Austin Mahone

We should’ve realized Austin was doing something with his style and coolness if Justin could get it. We’re sure this version had his initial Mahomies swoon, so we’re sure many of you may have it stored in your list.

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Tiwa Savage – Loaded Ft. Asake by Folake(f) : 2:01 pm On Sep 22

A brand new song by talented Nigerian artist Tiwa Savage, “Loaded,” has been released for our listening pleasure.

The artist collaborated with the skills of of Asake and his arrival with a Yoruba accent doesn’t discount the fact that he possesses indigenous features like tremendous vocal skill.

Tiwa Savage, or “the African Bad Gal” as we like to call her, is here to let Nigerians know that she has teamed up with Mr. Money, also known as Asake and that they have been thudding on the studio craft.

In her most recent release, “Jaiye Foreign,” she collaborated with Marlian Music superstar Zinoleesky, taking her music to a whole new level.

With YBNL recording artist Asake on the banger “Loaded,” she seems poised to reassume her global dominance.

In addition, Tiwa Savage will use the studio visit as research for an upcoming studio project that she plans to complete by the end of the year.

Have a listen and tell us what you think in the comments!

 

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DJ Cuppy turns down marriage proposal days after venting about her singlehood by Folake(f) : 2:06 pm On Sep 23

Nigerian Disc jockey and billionaire heiress, DJ Cuppy has turned down a marriage proposal, just days after lamenting about being single.

If there is one thing DJ cuppy often does on her social media page, it’s her constant grumble about her relationship status. Earlier, DJ Cuppy shared a photo on her Instagram page, where she posed by her Ferarri. Her fans bombarded her page with lovely comments but one struck a chord.

It was that of a user, identified as Vikto Riusman who proposed marriage to her.

He wrote:

“Marry me please”

Sadly, his proposal got turned down after DJ Cuppy politely replied commented, “No thank you”.

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Tyson Fury Claims Anthony Joshua Doesn’t Want to Fight Him as He is Refusing to Still Sign Contract For British Mega Fight by Folake(f) : 2:00 pm On Sep 24

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WBC heavyweight champion, Tyson Fury has claimed Anthony Joshua is yet to return his contract to finalise their Battle of Britain clash in Cardiff this December – slamming him as a ‘s**thouse bodybuilder’ and accusing him of not having the b****cks’ to face him.

Fury and Joshua looked set to finally clinch a deal to stage one of the most anticipated fights in boxing history after the Gypsy King offered the struggling fighter a shot at his WBC belt at the Millennium Stadium later this year.

Joshua immediately said he was interested and instructed his management group 258 and Matchroom to negotiate terms – with his promoter Eddie Hearn confirming they had accepted their offer for a 60-40 split.

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Fury’s promoter Frank Warren said a contract had been sent to Joshua’s team and both sides suggested there was little standing in the way of a full agreement – but Fury has now revealed potential problems standing in the way of a mega fight with his claim that Joshua has gone silent.

In a rant on his Instagram on Twitter on Friday, September 23, Fury first took aim at Usyk for saying he was ‘scared of him’, before turning his attention to Joshua.

‘Usyk you little s**thouse,’ he said. ‘You little s**tbag. Talking s***e – I’m afraid of you? I’ll put my fist through the side of you little sausage.

‘And of all the s***houses, that big bodybuilder Anthony Joshua – that’s a proper s***house that is. Haven’t signed the contract for I don’t knows how long and ain’t signing it. You little sausage.

‘You don’t want to fight, your manager’s a sausage I’ve never seen anything like you. However, I will be fighting on December 3rd if this sausage doesn’t sign the contract, and I don’t think he is [going to].

‘I don’t think he’s got the b****cks to because he’s a s**thouse. Both of you, a pair of sausage shithouses. Joshua is a s**thouse, Usyk is a s**thouse, youz are all s**thouses.’

This week Warren confirmed Joshua’s camp had not yet returned their contract, but said he saw no reason why the fight would not be finalised.

‘No. It’s not signed yet,’ he said. ‘We’re waiting for them to come back to us. But I don’t see any reason why it shouldn’t be signed.

‘The main crux of the negotiations are the splits which are agreed – 60/40. There’s a rematch clause which is agreed – 50/50.

‘The big problem was when the fight would take place, it’s December.

‘To give everybody comfort we’ve even said that they can be involved in all the broadcast contracts, sponsorships and everything, so they can see that everything’s above board.

‘That side of it, we satisfied any worries they may have. There’s no worries about payment because they will get paid direct from the respective TV companies, so that side of it’s sorted out.’

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2023: Why I Wasn’t Surprised Atiku Picked Okowa As His Running Mate – Wike by Folake(f) : 2:09 pm On Sep 24

Governor Nyesom Wike of Rivers state has said Atiku Abubakar's decision to pick Governor Ifeanyi Okowa of Delta State as his running mate didn't come to him as a surprise.

Atiku is the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) presidential candidate in the 2023 election.

Wike made the statement while speaking at a media briefing in Port Harcourt on Friday.

The governor stated that he was aware of the underground moves by the Delta governor before the PDP presidential primaries, stressing that he expected good sense to prevail in the party.

He said Okowa was the only South-South governor who didn’t buy a nomination form to vie for the presidency or a senatorial seat and that might have been a pointer to his undeclared ambition.

He said: “Atiku was going to run with Okowa. That Okowa supported him. We were all aware. It is not that we didn’t see.

“Take for instance the United States of America, (Joe) Biden ran and the current vice president of America, Kamala Harris, gave Biden serious problem.

“When they wanted to pick the Vice President, Biden said this woman gave me a serious problem, I cannot pick this woman, but those in Biden’s camp, who meant well for him told him, ‘If you want to win this election, you must pick Kamala Harris.’ And look at the support (for Biden) today.

“The problem with some of our leaders is that there are so many rent-seekers around them. They (rent-seekers) have not been in power for years.

“So they are all looking for how to bounce back. They are people who have no value to add.”

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7 Main Reasons Why Women Cheat So Bad! by Folake(f) : 2:01 pm On Sep 26

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The Key Reasons Why Women Cheat!

If you’re female and reading this wondering why I’m only writing about women who cheat, know that there is a piece on — “13 Reasons Why Men Cheat” — that has become one of my most widely read.

But now it’s time to look at female infidelity.

There is a common misperception that it’s only men who step out on their partners and that women are always faithful. To that, I say: Who are all these men cheating with exactly? Do heterosexual men only cheat with single women and each other?

The simple truth is that approximately as many married, heterosexual women cheat as married, heterosexual men. Research suggests that 10 to 20 percent of men and women in marriages or other committed (monogamous) relationships will actively engage in sexual activity outside of their primary relationship. And these numbers are likely under-reported, possibly by a wide margin, thanks to denial and confusion about what constitutes infidelity in the digital era. For example: Are you cheating if you look at porn? If you flirt on social media? If you have a profile on Ashley Madison that you check regularly, even though you never hook up in person?

To help couples answer these questions, I offer you my fully functional, digital-era definition of what it means to cheat:

Infidelity (cheating) is the breaking of trust that occurs when you keep profound, meaningful secrets from a committed primary partner.

I like this definition for four primary reasons:

1. The definition speaks to the most basic element of what happens when we cheat on our partners. We betray their trust. In such cases, even more than our sextracurricular activity, it is the lying and the secrecy of betrayal that wounds a beloved and unknowing partner (male or female).

2. The definition encompasses both online and real-world sexual activity, as well as sexual and romantic activities that stop short of intercourse: everything from looking at porn to kissing another man/woman to something as simple as flirting (now commonly referred to as micro-cheating).

3. The definition is flexible depending on the couple. It lets couples define their own version of sexual fidelity based on honest discussions and mutual decision-making. This means that it might be just fine to look at porn or to engage in some other form of extramarital sexual activity, as long as your mate knows about this behavior and is okay with it.

4. The definition helps the cheater understand that the problem he or she created occurred the moment he or she started lying to accommodate or cover up his or her infidelity. The harm is not a spouse finding out the bad news — the harm is that it was covered up.

None of that, of course, explains why women cheat. Nor does it address the fact that women and men often cheat for very different reasons.

So Why Do Women Cheat?

Typically, females step out on a committed partner for one or more of the following reasons:

  • They feel underappreciated, neglected, or ignored. They feel more like a housekeeper, nanny, or financial provider than a wife or girlfriend. So they seek an external situation that validates them for who they are, rather than the services they perform.
  • They crave intimacy. Women tend to feel valued and connected to a significant other more through non-sexual, emotional interplay (talking, having fun together, being thoughtful, building a home and social life together, etc.) than sexual activity. When they’re not feeling that type of connection from their primary partner, they may seek it elsewhere.
  • They are overwhelmed by the needs of others. Recent research about women who cheat indicates that many women, despite stating that they deeply love their spouse, their home, their work, and their lives, cheat anyway. These women often describe feeling so under-supported and overwhelmed by having to be all things to all people at all times that they seek extramarital sex as a form of life-fulfillment.
  • They are lonely. Women can experience loneliness in a relationship for any number of reasons. Maybe their spouse works long hours or travels for business on a regular basis, or maybe their spouse is emotionally unavailable. Whatever the cause, they feel lonely, and they seek connection through infidelity to fill the void.
  • They expect too much from a primary relationship. Some women have unreasonable expectations about what their primary partner and relationship should provide. They expect their significant other to meet their every need 24/7, 365 days a year, and when that doesn’t happen, they seek attention elsewhere.
  • They are responding to or re-enacting early-life trauma and abuse. Sometimes women who experienced profound early-life (or adult) trauma, especially sexual trauma, will re-enact that trauma as a way of trying to master or control it.
  • They’re not having enough satisfying sex at home. There is a societal misconception that only men enjoy sex. But plenty of women also enjoy sex, and if they’re not getting it at home, or it’s not enjoyable to them, for whatever reason, they may well seek it elsewhere.

As with male cheaters, women who cheat typically do not realize (in the moment) how profoundly infidelity affects their partner and their relationship. Cheating hurts betrayed men just as much as it hurts betrayed women. The keeping of secrets, especially sexual and romantic secrets, damages relationship trust and is incredibly painful regardless of gender.

If a couple chooses to address the situation together, couple’s counseling can turn a relationship crisis into a growth opportunity. Unfortunately, even when experienced therapists are extensively involved with people committed to healing, some couples are unable to ever regain the necessary sense of trust and emotional safety required to make it together. For these couples, solid, neutral relationship therapy can help the people involved to process a long overdue goodbye. But cheating doesn’t have to be seen as the end of a relationship; instead, it can be viewed as a test of its maturity and ability to weather the storm.

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PDP crisis: Wike denies saying Tinubu offered him Senate ticket by Folake(f) : 2:10 pm On Sep 26

Governor Nyesom Wike has refuted reports suggesting that the All Progressives Congress (APC) presidential candidate Bola Tinubu offered him a senatorial ticket to defect to the party after the Rivers State leader lost the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP)’s presidential primary poll.

The reports had claimed that Wike made the comment during a media chat on Friday but the governor’s media aide Kelvin Ebiri says the stories are “baseless”.

“We wish to state emphatically that this news is false, baseless, and ludicrous as the Rivers State governor throughout the media chat never mentioned the name of the APC presidential candidate or alluded to him offering him a senatorial ticket,” he said.

Ebiri also shared a transcript of the media parley where the governor made a comment about senatorial form as thus: “’First of all, this is how you know those who are prepared to run an election. Some of them collected presidential forms and at the same time collected senatorial forms. You’ll know that those people are not serious to run.

“’I never collected senatorial form. Even after the whole thing, people said come and go for Senate, I said no. I won’t do that. I’ve already made a commitment that this Senate ticket should be zoned to this area (Etche) because they’ve never had it before. I must not be in power.’”


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He added that “in an era of the increasingly divisive political climate, the tendency to pervert the truth is extremely high. It is on this basis that we wish to remind journalists that journalism’s first obligation is to the truth.

“At this critical juncture in our nation, we wish to remind journalists that getting the facts right is the cardinal principle of journalism. Journalists are enjoined to always strive for accuracy and give all the relevant facts in their reports. We, therefore, urge the unsuspecting public not to give any credence to these false, baseless, and ill-motivated reports.”

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Ruger – WeWe (Speed Up Fast Version) by Folake(f) : 2:02 pm On Sep 30

Nigerian Afropop superstar Ruger releases a stunning new single, “Wewe” and here comes the WeWe (Speed Up Fast Version).

The mp3 download Can you move to the reggae, no be blues (Speed Up Fast Version) is a catchy tune that’ll get you up and going.

Listen to this great tune, and please pass it along to other lovers of Afropop.

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President Buhari To Address Nigerians On October 1, 2022  by Folake(f) : 2:02 pm On Oct 01

As part of activities commemorating the 62nd Independence Anniversary of the country, President Muhammadu Buhari will address the nation on Saturday, October 1, 2022, at 7 am.

This was contained in a statement issued by the Special Adviser to the President on Media and Publicity, Femi Adesina and made available to IGBERE TV.

According to the statement, “television, radio stations and other electronic media outlets are enjoined to hook up to the network services of the Nigerian Television Authority and Radio Nigeria for the broadcast. “

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How I Was Trafficked, Turned To S*x Slave – 17-Year-Old Orphan Tells Heartbreaking Story by Folake(f) : 2:01 pm On Oct 02

 Enobong Udotai

Enobong Udotai, a 17-year-old orphan, who was turned into a s*x slave, has told her story.

The young girl narrates to OPEYEMI ADEFEMI her ordeal in the hands of an alleged human trafficker, who turned her into a s*x slave

Where are you from and how old are you?

I am from Effoi, in the Eket Local Government Area of Akwa Ibom State. I am 17 years old. I am an orphan. I don’t have parents.

Is it true that you were trafficked by someone?

Yes, it is true. The man’s name is Okon.

When and how did it happen?

The incident happened in 2019; I was 14 years old at the time. I met the man on Facebook and we started discussing.  I was in a boarding school then. I was in SS2 in Cornelia Connelly College, Uyo, Akwa-Ibom State. I met Okon on Facebook and we started talking.

After I told him about myself, he told me that he was my biological father and that he had my siblings with him. I have never met my biological dad; it was just my mum that I knew but she died when I was only five. That was the reason I was put in an orphanage.

Along the line, Okon told me to come and meet him but I said there was no way I could come out of the orphanage. But he insisted that I should come to meet him. So, I sneaked out and went to meet him.

What happened then?

When I came back to the orphanage, my mates reported me to the principal of my school and the principal invited the coordinator of the orphanage. The coordinator said he would come on Monday; the incident happened on a Friday. Later that day, I called Okon and told him what had happened as a result of my visit to him. He then asked me to pack my things and that he would come pick me from the place. He promised to take care of me and sponsor my education. I did as he instructed me. I packed my bags and patiently waited for him to come pick me. He came with a car to pick me. That was how I started living with him.

Where did he take you to?

He took me to Ibeno Local Government Area where he hails from. He was always telling me he was my father, but then he started sleeping with me. Sometimes he would send me out to sleep with other men and they would pay him. He made money off me. This continued until he impregnated me and we had to pin the pregnancy on another man. The man insisted the pregnancy wasn’t his at first but Okon blackmailed him; he said he would tell everyone that the man r*ped me. Then the man eventually took responsibility for the pregnancy. I gave birth to the baby but I lost it later. However, we didn’t tell the man, so he continued to send money. The man was based in Abuja and anytime he came to Akwa Ibom to visit the child, Okon would give me his biological child to present to the man as his child.

Did you ever attempt to escape?

I always told him that I was tired and that he should let me leave but he wouldn’t agree. He was always threatening me; so there was no way for me to escape.

He also threatened me that if I opened up to anyone, he would strangle me to death. After the child died, he told me it was the other man that killed the child. With annoyance, I tried reaching the man but he didn’t pick my calls, so I sent him a text and explained everything to him. The man reply my text message and sympathised with me on the death of the baby. I think the man called Okon and told him what I said.  But Okon told him that the baby didn’t die and told me to call him back and tell him that the baby was still alive. Out of fear I called the man again and told him the child didn’t die, as instructed by Okon.

How were you rescued?

Okon attempted to impregnate me again, with the plan to give the child to the man but I refused. He started maltreating me and forcing himself on me. He started beating me with wire and using a plastic chair to hit me. He locked me inside one room without food and water but I found a way to escape and reported to Child’s Right and Rehabilitation Centre.  They stepped in and reported him to the police, leading to his arrest.

Where is Okon now?

He is still in police detention.

Have you received any medical care after your escape?

Yes, I have gone to the hospital. I was tested and the doctor confirmed that I am pregnant. There is a cut on my head too.

Whose pregnancy is it?

It is for Okon.

How do you feel now?

I don’t feel good at all because of the pregnancy. I am frustrated and very sad.

Where do you live now?

I live in an orphanage here in Eket.

Do you wish to continue your education or you want to acquire a skill?

I stopped school in SS2. I really want to continue my education.

In all of this, what have you learnt?

I have learnt my lesson. I have learnt to be contented and not to trust anyone I don’t know. In all of this, I still thank God because I was able to find my brother even though I am not happy with myself because of the situation I am in.

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Source: The PUNCH

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